What Hosts Secretly Wish Guests Would Say in Their RSVP Replies

As a host, you’re not just asking for a headcount—you’re hoping to feel a little love and excitement too. So what are the RSVP replies that secretly make every planner’s day? And how can Sonfie help bring them out?

Here are some host-approved responses that mean more than you’d think:

• “I can’t wait—it’s going to be amazing!”
  
  

• “Thanks for inviting me, this made my day!”
  
  

• “I’m so proud of you and wouldn’t miss it.”
  
  

• “Let me know if I can help with anything!”
  
  

Using Sonfie, you can encourage these heartfelt notes by including an optional “Message to the Host” section in the RSVP form. Some guests just need a little nudge to add that warm, thoughtful message.

These kinds of replies remind you why you planned the event in the first place. They build emotional connection and help the host feel appreciated and supported.

It’s not about formality—it’s about feelings. And Sonfie helps you invite those in, too